The nurse is meeting a family for the first time for family therapy. The husband/father is an accountant and is skeptical of the idea that talking can be helpful. The wife/mother is a teacher who states she is not skillful in conflict resolution. The daughter, age 15, is rebellious and in academic trouble. The son, age 17, is conflicted about where to attend college. According to family systems therapy who would be most likely to be listed as the 'identified patient"?

Choice A Reason:

"Why do you think you might have cancer when your diagnosis is a benign condition?” This response may come across as dismissive and could make the client feel unheard. It does not acknowledge the client's concerns and may discourage open communication.

Choice B Reason:

"I'm hearing that you are concerned that might turn out that you have cancer.” This response demonstrates active listening and acknowledges the client's expressed concern. It encourages the client to share their feelings and provides an opportunity for further discussion. Option B shows empathy and supports the client's emotional needs during a stressful time.

Choice C Reason:

"I'm looking at your chart here and I don't see any reason for you to worry about that.” This response focuses on the medical chart and might minimize the client's emotional concerns. It does not address the client's feelings and may create a sense of invalidation.

Choice D Reason:

"I think that's something you need to discuss with your provider.” While it directs the client to the provider, it doesn't acknowledge the client's emotions or provide immediate support. It may seem like a deflection rather than an empathetic response.

Choice A Reason:

"If it weren't for you and the hours we've spent talking, I don't think I would be on my way to getting my anxiety under control." While this statement acknowledges the importance of the nurse-patient relationship in helping with anxiety, it might imply a somewhat dependent stance. The ideal therapeutic relationship encourages patients to gain skills and tools to manage their issues independently.

Choice B Reason:

"I appreciate the time you spent with me. I have a better understanding of what I can do to manage my problem." This statement reflects the patient's acknowledgment of the nurse's support and guidance, resulting in a positive impact on the patient's understanding and ability to manage their concerns. It emphasizes the constructive nature of the nurse-patient relationship and the effectiveness of the interactions in addressing the patient's needs.

Choice C Reason:

"I really need to talk with you. You always give me good advice about how to address my anger issues." While seeking support and advice from the nurse is positive, the emphasis on always receiving good advice might suggest a more directive approach rather than collaborative exploration and problem-solving, which is often a goal in therapeutic relationships.

Choice D Reason:

"You've been kind to me when I was at a low point. Knowing you've had low points too was such a help. “While mutual understanding and empathy are crucial in the nurse-patient relationship, the statement may focus more on the nurse's experiences rather than the patient's progress or understanding. The primary focus should be on the patient's needs and growth.