The nurse is conducting a health history for a 9-year-old child with stomach pains. What is a recommended guideline when approaching the child for information?

A. A child whose parents answer questions for the child. This behavior may indicate that the child's parents are controlling or dominating, possibly preventing the child from expressing their own thoughts or feelings. It could be a sign of emotional or psychological abuse, where the child's autonomy and voice are suppressed.

B. A child who has frequent visitors: While frequent visitors may raise concerns about the child's social environment, it does not necessarily indicate abuse. Further assessment would be needed to determine the nature of these visits and their impact on the child's well-being.

C. A child who uses the call light frequently: Frequent use of the call light may indicate physical discomfort, illness, or anxiety, but it does not inherently suggest abuse. It could be related to the child's medical condition or emotional state.

D. A child who has a BMI indicating obesity: Obesity alone is not indicative of abuse. While it may raise concerns about the child's health and well-being, it does not directly point to abuse unless there are additional signs or symptoms suggestive of neglect or mistreatment.

A. "His average daily intake should be about 3,000 calories.": This statement is incorrect because the average daily calorie intake for a toddler is much lower, typically ranging from 1,000 to 1,400 calories, depending on factors such as age, weight, and activity level.

B. "The quality of food I provide him is more important than the quantity.": This statement reflects an understanding of the importance of nutrient-dense foods in a toddler's diet rather than focusing solely on the quantity of calories consumed.

C. "Because he is such a picky eater, I will give him one of my vitamins each day.": While offering a vitamin supplement may seem like a solution to address nutritional gaps, it's important for toddlers to receive essential nutrients from a variety of foods rather than relying solely on supplements.

D. "I should expect him to have an increased appetite.": While toddlers may experience fluctuations in appetite, expecting a consistently increased appetite may not be accurate or indicative of healthy eating habits.