A nurse is caring for a postpartum client who tells the nurse that she does not want any more children. The client asks which birth control method the nurse would recommend. Which of the following responses should the nurse make?

Choice A Reason:

"If it weren't for you and the hours we've spent talking, I don't think I would be on my way to getting my anxiety under control." While this statement acknowledges the importance of the nurse-patient relationship in helping with anxiety, it might imply a somewhat dependent stance. The ideal therapeutic relationship encourages patients to gain skills and tools to manage their issues independently.

Choice B Reason:

"I appreciate the time you spent with me. I have a better understanding of what I can do to manage my problem." This statement reflects the patient's acknowledgment of the nurse's support and guidance, resulting in a positive impact on the patient's understanding and ability to manage their concerns. It emphasizes the constructive nature of the nurse-patient relationship and the effectiveness of the interactions in addressing the patient's needs.

Choice C Reason:

"I really need to talk with you. You always give me good advice about how to address my anger issues." While seeking support and advice from the nurse is positive, the emphasis on always receiving good advice might suggest a more directive approach rather than collaborative exploration and problem-solving, which is often a goal in therapeutic relationships.

Choice D Reason:

"You've been kind to me when I was at a low point. Knowing you've had low points too was such a help. “While mutual understanding and empathy are crucial in the nurse-patient relationship, the statement may focus more on the nurse's experiences rather than the patient's progress or understanding. The primary focus should be on the patient's needs and growth.

Choice A Reason:

Anxiety is incorrect. While anxiety is a valid concern, it may not be an immediate threat to the individual's safety.

Choice B Reason:

Ineffective coping is incorrect. This is relevant, but it doesn't address the urgency associated with potential self-harm.

Choice C Reason:

Chronic low self-esteem is incorrect. Low self-esteem is a significant issue, but it may not require immediate intervention compared to the risk of self-harm.

Choice D Reason:

Self-harm is correct. Assessing and addressing the risk of self-harm takes precedence, as it involves ensuring the immediate safety and well-being of the individual. Once the risk of self-harm is addressed, the nurse can then explore and address other related concerns, such as anxiety, coping mechanisms, and self-esteem.