A nurse is leading a therapy session for a group of adolescent clients. Which of the following statements should the nurse identify as an adaptive use of ego defense mechanisms?

A. The client expresses feelings of guilt.
Feelings of guilt are a common part of the grieving process. Many people may experience guilt related to things they said or didn't say, things they did or didn't do before their loved one's death. While it can be challenging, it is not necessarily a maladaptive grief response.

B. The client is unable to perform basic hygiene tasks.
This indicates a maladaptive grief response. If the client's grief has led to such severe impairment in functioning that they cannot maintain basic hygiene, it suggests an inability to cope and function in daily life, which is concerning and requires intervention and support.

C. The client gives away some of the partner's belongings.
This behavior is a common part of the grieving process. It can represent the client's attempt to let go and move on. It might also be an expression of their partner's wishes or a way to help others in need. Giving away belongings is not inherently maladaptive; it depends on the context and the individual's overall coping abilities.

D. The client relocates from a house to an apartment.
Changes in living arrangements after the loss of a loved one are often part of adapting to the new circumstances. It can be a way for the individual to reduce their responsibilities, live in a more manageable space, or seek a fresh start. Relocating, on its own, is not a maladaptive response to grief.

A. "Don't worry about it. Your anxiety will lessen once the massage begins."
This response dismisses the client's concerns and may not be respectful of their boundaries. It does not acknowledge the client's discomfort and does not offer a solution to address their preference.

B. "Why don't you like to be touched by others?"
While the nurse is attempting to understand the client's feelings, this question might come across as invasive or judgmental. The client may not feel comfortable discussing their reasons for not liking to be touched, and this response does not offer an immediate solution to the issue at hand.

C. "I will request that the massage therapist wear gloves during your treatment."
This response shows an attempt to accommodate the client's preference by suggesting a practical solution, such as wearing gloves to create a physical barrier. However, it's important to note that some individuals may still find this uncomfortable, and it might not be a universally effective solution for everyone.

D. "I will tell your provider that you would like a treatment other than massage."
This response acknowledges the client's discomfort and demonstrates respect for their boundaries. It indicates the nurse's intention to advocate for the client's preferences and well-being. By informing the provider about the client's aversion to touch, the nurse opens the door to exploring alternative treatment options that are more suitable for the client's comfort level.