A nurse is caring for an older adult client diagnosed with a cerebrovascular accident and has right-sided paralysis and aphasia. The client's son tells the nurse it is his fault because he did not insist that his mother live with him. Which of the following responses should the nurse make?

Choice A rationale:

This response uses a confrontational tone and places blame on the client for their behavior, which is not an example of assertive communication. It can potentially escalate the situation and hinder effective communication.

Choice B rationale:

This statement is authoritarian in nature, using phrases like "you need to" and "forgive me," which can further upset the client and create a power struggle. It lacks empathy and understanding, making it ineffective for assertive communication.

Choice C rationale:

While this response acknowledges the consequences of the client's negative behavior, it uses commanding language ("you better go to your room"), which can be perceived as aggressive and may escalate the situation instead of facilitating effective communication.

Choice D rationale:

This statement is the most effective example of assertive communication. It acknowledges the client's feelings ("I understand that you are angry") while also asserting the nurse's adherence to protocol. This response demonstrates empathy, understanding, and a willingness to address the client's emotions in a non-confrontational manner.

The correct answer is choice D.

Choice A rationale:

Encouraging the family to take the client out of the facility for short periods of time may not be appropriate at this point. Abrupt changes in behavior, like sudden cheerfulness, might be a warning sign for potential suicide risk in individuals with depression. Allowing the client to leave the facility could increase the risk of harm.

Choice B rationale:

Rewarding the client for the change in behavior might inadvertently reinforce the idea that acting cheerful is desirable. This could hinder the client's progress and therapeutic understanding of their condition.

Choice C rationale:

Asking the client why her behavior has changed is a thoughtful and reasonable approach, but it might not address the potential underlying issues adequately. Depression can still be present, and sudden shifts in mood should be monitored closely.

Choice D rationale:

Monitoring the client's whereabouts at all times is the appropriate action. Sudden improvements in a depressed client's demeanor could indicate that they have made a decision to end their life. Monitoring ensures their safety and enables prompt intervention if needed.