A nurse is caring for a client who has AIDS. The client states, "My mouth is sore when I eat." Which of the following instructions should the nurse provide?

Rationale:

A. "Tell me how you are feeling about your mom dying.": This encourages the daughter to express her emotions, which is an important first step in processing grief and finding the right words to support her mother. It shows empathy and opens a therapeutic conversation.

B. "You sound like you have questions about your mom dying. Let's talk about it.": This response invites the daughter to engage in a meaningful discussion about her concerns. It provides emotional support and creates a safe space for her to ask questions and gain clarity.

C. "Let's talk about your mom's cancer and how things will progress from here.": Educating the daughter about the disease process and what to expect during hospice care can reduce anxiety and help her feel more prepared to have honest conversations with her mother.

D. "Tell her not to worry. She still has plenty of time left.": This response offers false reassurance and avoids the reality of the situation. It can prevent the daughter from addressing important emotional or end-of-life discussions with her mother.

E. "Hospice will take good care of your mom, so I wouldn't worry about that.": Although hospice provides excellent care, this response shifts the focus away from the daughter’s emotional needs and discourages open communication about death and dying.

Rationale:

A. I should clean my stoma with moisturizing soap: Moisturizing soaps can leave a residue that interferes with the adhesive of the pouching system. The stoma area should be cleaned with warm water or a mild, non-moisturizing soap to ensure the pouch adheres properly.

B. I should cut my pouch opening 1/8 inch larger than my stoma: The opening should be just slightly larger than the stoma about 1/8 inch to prevent constriction while still protecting the surrounding skin from effluent and minimizing skin irritation.

C. I should expect my stoma to be blistered: A healthy stoma should appear moist, pink or red, and smooth. Blistering is a sign of skin breakdown or irritation and indicates improper pouch fitting or leakage, which requires intervention.

D. I should change my stoma pouch 30 minutes after heals: There isn't a specific 30-minute post-meal rule. The most important guideline for changing a pouch is when it's about one-third to one-half full, or if there is leakage or discomfort.