A home care nurse is visiting an older adult client who tells the nurse that she is feeling tired, is unable to shop for groceries, and would like the nurse to shop for her. Shopping and performing personal errands for the client is prohibited in the nurse's job description. Which of the following is an appropriate nursing response?

The response "You are feeling drawn in two different directions" acknowledges the daughter's conflicting feelings and validates her emotions. It demonstrates empathy and understanding of her situation. It can help the daughter feel heard and supported and opens up an opportunity for further conversation about her concerns and possible solutions.

The other options are less appropriate:

A- "Don't worry. We'll take good care of your father while you are gone." While this response reassures the daughter about her father's care, it does not address her emotional conflict or provide support for her own needs and concerns.

B- "Perhaps you could stay here and just call your family to see how they are doing." This response minimizes the daughter's situation and does not fully acknowledge her need to be with her own family. It may overlook the emotional strain and responsibilities she may have outside of the hospital.

C-"There's nothing you can do here. You should go home to your family." This response dismisses the daughter's feelings and implies that her presence is not necessary or valuable. It does not consider her desire to support her father or the importance of maintaining a connection with him during his hospitalization.

The appropriate response for the nurse in this situation would be: "I'll just sit here with you for a few minutes then."
This response acknowledges the client's expressed desire not to talk and respects their boundaries. It shows support and presence by offering companionship without pressuring the client to discuss their feelings. The nurse's willingness to sit with the client demonstrates empathy and provides a sense of comfort and reassurance.
The other options are not as appropriate:

1. "It might help you feel better if you talk about it." This response disregards the client's stated preference not to talk and may create a sense of pressure or intrusiveness. It is important to respect the client's autonomy and readiness to share their feelings.
2. "Why are you feeling so down?" This response directly asks the client to explain their feelings, which they have already indicated they do not want to discuss. It can be seen as intrusive and may make the client feel uncomfortable or defensive.
3. "I understand. I've felt like that before, too." While empathy is important, this response brings the focus back to the nurse's own experiences, potentially diverting the attention from the client. It is important for the nurse to remain focused on the client's needs and create a supportive environment for them to express their feelings if they choose to do so.