The nurse is planning to teach infant care and preventive measures for sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) to a group of new parents. Which information is most important for the nurse to include?

Choice A reason: This is correct because it addresses both the physical and emotional needs of the child and the mother. The nurse should provide comfort and reassurance to the mother and explain that occasional accidents are normal and not a sign of failure.

Choice B reason: This is incorrect because it implies that the mother is incompetent and needs external help. The nurse should first establish rapport and trust with the mother before suggesting any resources or interventions.

Choice C reason: This is incorrect because it suggests that there is something wrong with the child's kidneys, which may alarm and offend the mother. The nurse should not jump to conclusions without assessing the child's history and symptoms.

Choice D reason: This is incorrect because it generalizes and stereotypes boys as being slower than girls in toilet training. The nurse should not make assumptions based on gender and should respect individual differences.

Choice A: Mark an outline of the 'olive-shaped' mass in the right epigastric area. This is not a priority action, as it does not address the immediate needs of the infant. The 'olive-shaped' mass is a sign of pyloric stenosis, but it does not affect the infant's hydration or nutrition.

Choice B: Instruct parents regarding care of the incisional area. This is an important action, but not a priority before surgery. The parents need to know how to care for the incisional area after surgery, but this can be done later.

Choice C: Monitor amount of intake and infant's response to feedings. This is a relevant action, but not a priority before surgery. The infant with pyloric stenosis may have vomiting, dehydration, and electrolyte imbalance due to gastric outlet obstruction. Monitoring intake and output can help assess the severity of these problems, but it does not correct them.

Choice D: Initiate a continuous infusion of IV fluids per prescription. This is the priority action before surgery, as it can prevent or treat dehydration and electrolyte imbalance in the infant. IV fluids can also help maintain blood volume and perfusion during surgery.