A young client diagnosed with major depressive disorder recently had their engagement broken off by their fiancé, who claimed the client was too fat and ugly.

During a one-on-one interaction with the nurse, the client says, “My fiancé is really wonderful and is not to blame for calling off the engagement.

I look awful and I’m not much good for anything.”. What is the most appropriate response by the nurse?

Choice A rationale
The nurse’s response, “Tell me how you felt when your fiancé broke up with you,” is the most therapeutic because it encourages the client to express feelings. This is a crucial step in the healing process. The nurse is using active listening skills and showing empathy, which can help build a therapeutic relationship with the client. It’s important for the nurse to provide a safe and nonjudgmental environment for the client to express feelings of sadness, anger, or guilt related to the breakup.
Choice B rationale
The response, “Maybe the breakup was for the best,” is not therapeutic because it minimizes the client’s feelings and experiences. It’s not the nurse’s place to make judgments or assumptions about the situation. The nurse should focus on the client’s feelings and provide support.
Choice C rationale
The response, “Do you think you are better off without your fiancé?” could be seen as leading or suggestive. It’s important for the nurse to remain neutral and not impose personal beliefs or opinions on the client.
Choice D rationale
The response, “How could your fiancé be wonderful after saying those things to you?” could be seen as confrontational and judgmental. It’s not the nurse’s role to judge the client’s relationships or experiences. The nurse should provide a supportive and understanding environment for the client to express feelings.