Shortly before a child's elective surgery, the parent tells the nurse, "I am having second thoughts about my child undergoing this surgery." The nurse respects the parent's concern and calls the surgeon. What ethical/moral principle is represented by this situation?

Choice A reason: This is not appropriate because it may make the parents feel excluded or suspicious. It may also make the girl feel uncomfortable or scared. The parents have the right to be present and involved in their daughter's care, unless they pose a threat to her safety.

Choice B reason: This is not appropriate because it may offend or upset the parents and the girl. It may also damage the trust and rapport between the provider and the family. The provider should not make assumptions or accusations based on the girl's symptoms.

Choice C reason: This is appropriate because it respects the parents' authority and the girl's privacy. It also allows the provider to rule out pregnancy as a possible cause of the abdominal pain, and to offer appropriate counseling and treatment if needed.

Choice D reason: This is not appropriate because it may miss a potential diagnosis or complication. The provider should not rely solely on the parents' or the girl's statements about sexual activity, as they may be inaccurate or dishonest. The provider should follow the standard of care and perform a pregnancy test for any female of childbearing age with abdominal pain.

Choice A reason: This is not a valid basis for the nurse's response, as it implies that the child sleeps with the parents because of a lack of attention during the day. This may not be the case, and it may also offend the parents by questioning their parenting skills.

Choice B reason: This is a valid basis for the nurse's response, as it acknowledges the diversity and variability of family practices and preferences. It also shows respect and sensitivity for the parents' and the child's needs and comfort.

Choice C reason: This is not a valid basis for the nurse's response, as it is false and exaggerated. Sleeping with one's children is not illegal or abusive, unless there is evidence of harm or neglect. It may also alarm and anger the parents by accusing them of a crime.

Choice D reason: This is not a valid basis for the nurse's response, as it is based on a rigid and arbitrary developmental milestone. There is no fixed age for separating from parents, and it may vary depending on the child's temperament, attachment, and environment. It may also pressure and guilt the parents by implying that they are delaying their child's growth.